Googling “ex wife wants me back” or searching this site’s reconciliation stories for a golden ticket back to marriage is fraught with danger. That’s one of the reasons that newcomers get told that the chance their marriage will be saved is very low.
It suggests your detachment is not progressing well, and that you need to seek out some professional counselling. Don’t get me wrong, detachment doesn’t happen overnight. It takes years! But you’re trying to do something you don’t have the skills for.
The three best ways forward are: 1. Extreme exercising to keep your mind busy and shut down emotionally driven thoughts and rumination 2. Professional counselling 3. Understanding that you didn’t cause this, you can’t fix it
