Wayward Wife help (2)

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FwdMvmnt,

She is going around the house asking what’s hers tonight...She is wanting to sell things to make money for herself. I told her that anything that is ours or are assets that those need to be used for the family. She said my clothes and the kids clothes that my mom bought are mine. She’s going to sell things on eBay and have a garage sale I guess to use toward her own place. Interesting times.

Document those assets! Seriously. Video, pictures, spreadsheet. Protect yourself financially.

Did you do this yet??? This is what we recommended to you a few days ago and now you come home to this...

Got home today and she was going through things. She was asking about different things, if I wanted them etc.

Don't be a cautionary tale.

I said when do you thing you will be moving out

I said I’m not doing this for 6 months. I said there are too many intolerable things that I won’t put up with

I said what are you talking about? I have better things to do than track you.

I said when do you thing you will be moving out

You're suppose to listen and validate not initiate, debate and argue. You need to get mentally stronger.

I found out I’m a Nice Guy. I can’t believe how much that book ring true for me in so many ways. I can see all my parts in the crumbling of our marriage. Time to get to work on practicing these tools as well as the ones I’ve already learned.

Good. What other books on on your list?