Hey All, Been a day or two since update. Was traveling for work. Had really good NC while traveling and felt good to get out of the house. I did not initiate texts and kept answers short. Got home today and she was going through things. She was asking about different things, if I wanted them etc. She asked if she could leave a few things in the closet that wouldn’t fit upstairs, she’s still getting things out or our MB. I said when do you thing you will be moving out, probably shouldn’t have said anything. She said I don’t know maybe 6 months I need to start working. I said I’m not doing this for 6 months. I said there are too many intolerable things that I won’t put up with, she said like what? I said whatever it is you are doing. The other day before I left, she randomly told me she wasn’t talking to her friend anymore. I just brushed it off at that time, but when I said the comment about whatever you are doing, she said I stopped talking to him but he texted me last night. I didn’t say anything and went and sat by S6. She said you know it’s illegal to put something on my phone to track my activity. I said what are you talking about? I have better things to do than track you. I have pulled location and looked at phone bill. I hate these interactions and need to get better at avoiding. I find it hard when all of us are here, I don’t want S6 to feel alone if I bail to go do something. It’s hard to escape in the house. She left for her meeting early crying about something after yelling at the dog. I still have a hard time not comforting… on that note I found out I’m a Nice Guy. I can’t believe how much that book ring true for me in so many ways. I can see all my parts in the crumbling of our marriage. Time to get to work on practicing these tools as well as the ones I’ve already learned.
