My wife says she is done

[Ready2Change]

I told her that I wanna wait until Christmas.

Hopefully you meant AFTER Christmas.


Do you want to tell the children?

If the answer is no, then the next time she brings it up:

W:"It's after Christmas, when do you want to tell the children?"
H:"I do not want to tell the children, but this D is your choice and I will support your decision. I believe we should tell them after you found a place to live."
W:"You keep pushing this out bla bla bla" in a frustrated tone
H:"The sooner you move out, the sooner we can tell them"
W"bla bla bla" in an angry tone.
H:"You sound angry." Then keep validate her emotional state.

(I self edited part of that. Use it or not, the less words you speak, the better)