Moving fast, well they are in mid to late 50s. They may see the clock is ticking to finding their forever mate.. She has been noted to say, "I am getting older...." I imagine with some people they know statistics arent in their favor to date, remarry etc the older they get, especially after two failed marriages...
Two failed marriages, mid 50s and STILL looking for their soulmate or “forever” partner. I swear it makes a mockery to both terms. My parents had forever partners. They were married for 62 years. How can these people even call it forever when “forever” has three phases and lasts a dozen or two years at a time. Yet I remember seeing that in OLD as well. “Looking for my soulmate” or “Prince Charming” or “looking for the fantasy”. It’s totally lost on them that THEY are the problem in achieving this life goal. They think it’s their partners who failed and if only they find the (next) right person they will be happy. Rather than figuring out they stink at relationships. Sadly these types of people are everywhere in mid life dating. But it won’t stop them from rushing into the next fairytale. It’s what they do.
Doesnt matter if you stink at relationships. Deep down I hope her rerlationship fails, as I have said before. But that is very selfish of me as I know it. I am slowly working me, trying to GAL. Working the gym, dang I am out of shape after heart surgery. Church is very different from my Catholic school days. Taking a friend who just came into town for a tour of my city. Getting out. Been hanging out with male friends more, doing little stuff for each others houses/cars etc, As far as relationships at this age, If your needs ( emotional ((Loneliness/connection))for some, physical for others for example) are being met, arent you in love? Inject sarcasm..
