No the DB boundary threads. Ok you set a boundary you will not attend holidays parties with new dude. You say boundary is broken. What are the consequences? If it’s you not attending your ex gets what she wants so you may want to revisit your consequences.
I guess I compare to me and I am in my mid 50s (wtf) and move methodically slow.
How’s GAL and dating going?
Consequences of breaking a boundary never crossed my mind. Mentally I can handle missing the family Christmas. Being a introvert helps there. I am used to months of isolation and no contact, ex Submariner. But, My kids and I are fine with it, so they say. Only one event is grandbabys B day next month. My oldest has told her Momma, she wants us both there.
Also, my grandbabys Dad is her world. If he is there, no one else matters. I think there is more to my daughter wanting that event to happen with us both there. Quite Frankly, I dont care if ex is there. I dont care to see her either. If ex gets her way. Fine, right now.
