Thanks Mach. I’ve learned in life to take situations and news that might make me feel bad and put them aside so I can go on and enjoy life and have fun. Not much has taken me “out” I’m one of those high functioning you would never even know I was having the feelings I am having types of people. Is it healthy? I dunno. That’s why I mentioned on B’s post that I allow my daughter to see me sad and vulnerable. I don’t want her to have to think she should be going through life strong as a rock and her mom has no feelings.
Its hard to let your kids see you sad and vulnerable, as they would see it. But, it does give them a bit of reality. TV shows, and many books are fantasy, not reality.. many kids are brought up with fantasy.. By showing both sides of the fence, its healthy, in my opinion.
