I made a vow to myself to never make my child’s events about me or OW. It’s not her fault.
You need to do what is right for you. But know that if you don’t show up because She is seeing someone, your granddaughter will remember you weren’t there , but this man was. Sorry, it’s a harsh reality.
You say it’s too soon, but am I mistaken or has it been a few years ?
Hey, its been a while for divorce, but there was never any other man actually around I knew of. This guy just started seeing her a couple months or so ago, and has gone to B days for the oldest, and Thanksgiving, now this.. Just not comfortable to go.. Remember, I am grand pa, not Dad too.. I just have a strong relationship with my grand baby.. I am hoping she wont be as upset.. If her Dads there, it will be okay, I am positive of that.
