To say that was completely out of character for the person I married would be the understatement of the century, but people change. boy, do they change!
The person you have created in your mind is not the person they really are. That is one thing to understand asap.
i'm not sure I agree with you R2C, but whether I do or don't agree doesn't matter. What does matter is that when things get to this place in a marriage, you have to deal with the person your spouse is today, not the person you knew.
active addiction adds a complicated layer.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
