Hey, I have a new sitch I am dealing with.. Background:My oldest daughter and grand child.. My grand daughter and I are solid, no issues. My oldest 32, we had a caustic first few years. Once grand baby was born 6 years ago, all three of us have grown significantly. Our relationship seems very strong. Now the tough part. My daughter and her baby daddy have not been living with each other for about 1.5 years. Daughter says there is No chance getting back. Ever since then, we have been together more and more, and I have been not supporting the grand baby, but doing allot for her. Pictures, events, clothing. No medical or Food. But I think it is levitating towards I will be the grand pa raising this child, along with ex. If it happens, thats fine. Now the tricky part, me and the ex. Ex is seeing someone. I was clear I didnt want to see them together. First hurdle of testing my boundary. My grandbaby is having two plays this week. Same play, just twice. I had planned on going to both as I was told nobody could go due to work, and ex is sick again, fever (Flu more than likely). Fever broke two days ago, and she texted me asking for the two them to show up for one of the events as she knew I was going to both. She said, I respect your feelings etc, and want to run it by you. I said, I will go one day, and you can go the other. Problem solved, but my boundary was tested. Now, Grand babys B Day is in January, and my daughter has told her Momma, that there will be one party, and her new man is not to be there. Not my business, as that is their fight. It can go a few ways. But, I will not go if he is there, its too soon to deal with this. Thoughts.
