Gf just said to me, That she wants to feel like number 1. And that she should not be competing with a 12 year old to be number 1.
He is your son, not a female best friend - your GF should not be in competition with your child.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
she thinks she might need some time away, and that she would take the baby with her away for a month.
Um...no. A month is a really long time. Maybe if things were wonderful and you had no worries, but with her behavior that'd be a real concern. Don't let her take your kid away for a month, have that turn into 2 or 6 months, and then let that be the "norm" for the family court judge to consider making her the primary custodian.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
With this conversation, I will be reaching out to a lawyer tomorrow. Good! It's overdue imo.
[quote=Wolfman]I did not want to argue with her. It only would have escalated and got bad.
Good. Way to not argue/debate/escalate.
Wolfman - Just make sure to protect yourself and your R with your children. That should really be your only goal at the moment.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
