Marching in limbo with MLC H

[BL42]

marching,

I have been missing him a lot lately. For the first several months, I was just dealing with shock. Now, so many things remind me of H.

The best thing you can do is stay busy, hence the GAL advice. Pour yourself into work, into exercise, into picking up a hobby and getting out and being social. The more you're focused on other areas the less time you have to dwell on your sitch..and btw the happier and more confident and attractive you'll become.

Clearly I am not detached.

It's perfectly natural to still have feelings, so don't beat yourself up over it. As my IC would say...it's a process. When you 've been with someone for a decade detaching doesn't happen over night. It's going to take time.