What to do 4

[DonH]

She said everyday she wakes up and is still at home, with me feels like a win. She sees that as trying.

I think she’s being honest about that. It’s where she’s at and you wanting more is nothing but pressure to her. She feels like you’ve got her cornered right outside your goal. She’s trying to get past you to just get a little downfield towards your goal but you keep pushing her back. Give her a little room to work. Stop the full court press and just let her get to center court where the game can actually be played. You’re so focused on scoring you’ve lost site that in this instance if you shoot and score it means you actually lose the game rather than win it.