Yeah, I don’t think it’s fair for someone with kids who are babies when you get a divorce.
Is it fair to the baby or the children involved? They had no choice in any of this. At least the parents had a choice in who they married or had babies with. That’s why it’s so very important to choose wisely. The child never had that choice and it’s clearly not fair to them. I get that it can be very difficult and probably not the best for the mom and dad, but it is the best for the children involved. I’m not saying I’d be able to do it. It would without a doubt be very difficult to do. Thing is sometimes the right things are also the most difficult.
The second thing is for both the divorced parents to make the child’s life as normal as possible. Holidays together, birthdays. Etc. parenting together. Keeping them out if the middle.
Whether by choice or not Ginger you have done all of this. Was it fair to you? Not in the slightest. Was it fair to your daughter? Absolutely!
Let me clarify. The way wolf did it, it’s an absolute no. Entering a relationship I’m a way at a healthy point doesn’t have to be negative for kids. It could be an absolutely positive. Choosing wisely ks very important .
