Wolfman Moving Forward 5

[Wolfman]

I am going to re-read the info here. I really hope anyone reading this wil not make the same mistakes I have made. I was right there with you newbies. I thought I could handle a new relationship. I wanted the pain to go away. I used another person to make that pain go away, yet I wasn't ready for another relationship. I had blinders on to the red flags, I ignored them because I wanted so bad to be loved and to give love to someone. But in doing so, I have only made my situation more complex and unfortunately have affected other peoples lives because of my poor decision. I beg the newbies to read my situation and learn from it.

Right now I am so depressed that another relationship is failing. Granted it should of never happened, but i am here and have to deal with the situation at hand. It is so hard when one person NEVER feels they are wrong are have done anything wrong. I hear everyone with the validate, but my question is how? How do I validate when "everything" is my fault. Granted some things are my fault, I am no angel. I own up to those things and apologize. But everything? I am so scared of the future!!!