Lh- I at am the limit for anymore OM shenanigans. If she starts up with om1 again or finds #2 I’m done. No discussion, I’m out. I let her know that when she came home. I have also set a date for this limbo bs to end. 4/2/23 will be 1 year from BD. If nothing has changed I will have to decide if I’m willing to stay the course.
Personally, I do not think you have changed enough. OM is not the issue.
How different are you from the day you arrived? How different are you from BD day? How different will you be on 4/2/23?
This has nothing to do with your W. It has everything to do with you and your behavior. Including how you interact with others and specifically with your W.
Of course I have changed. If I was the same guy as I was prior to BD I would have never stuck it out. I treat her as if she didn't do any of this crap 99.9% of the time. I've changed my lazy behaviors and how I interact with W. Please elaborate on how this has nothing to do with W or the om. How I interact with others? My behavior? You make it sound as if I'm some giant a-hole, treating everyone badly. Maybe I'm just not understanding your point.
