Lh- I at am the limit for anymore OM shenanigans. If she starts up with om1 again or finds #2 I’m done. No discussion, I’m out. I let her know that when she came home. I have also set a date for this limbo bs to end. 4/2/23 will be 1 year from BD. If nothing has changed I will have to decide if I’m willing to stay the course.
This is great. Except that you need to change that last sentence. if 4/2/23 is the drop dead date, then you need to have a clear action ahead of you. "If nothing has changed (what?) I will have to decide if I'm willing to stay the course." Wishy-washy.
Here was how mine looked and I put it right in my signature. "I have decided to give her 1 year from BD. If on 12/23/2018 she isn't fully committed back to the marriage, I will go file for D myself!"
See the difference. Clear expectation (she being committed back to the marriage in totality) then clear action (I would go file for D myself).
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
