D, Thank you for the post. Her mom bought the airplane ticket for her. I will let her pay it back if she’s going to. I didn’t cancel the cards just locked them. Probably the biggest potential misstep I’ve had. Will ensure to pause before acting from now on. It really was just a simple request to go over the plans for the week, but is controlling. Not what I am going for. The cards were reactivated that day. I’ve never restricted her finances, it was just that one purchase. For Christmas, we will still all be there on Christmas morning. I told her I wouldn’t be at her families celebration and did not want her at mine. Not sure if the right thing, but also think it would be weird to be at each others with her stating she is leaving and 100% wants a D. Do you have any additional Thoughts?
