Wayward Wife help (2)

[Ready2Change]

There are other things more important, but I am going to address this:

I asked her if she could take it outside and she said no

This is a controlling statement. DO NOT TRY TO CONTROL HER. See how she says NO. Now what?

I asked her if she could take the shower upstairs.

Again, you are trying to control her.

Who knows if she is attempting to bait you, but you have to leave her alone. Ya, smoking in the house [censored], but in the big picture, who cares? Focus on your 6yo.