Steve- Thanks for the perspective on the OM. I’ve definitely thought about her looking for #2. #1 still concerns me because he not only works with her, he also lives in our town now. We have to drive by his house to get in town from our house. It’s an everyday reminder.
LH-I understood what you meant. I’m not ready to end it, yet. Thus, no ultimatum. I didn’t do it right the first time. I only said nc with him. She immediately wanted to come home and “work on things”. I should have done as you said and included mc, working on marriage, and new job.
bttrfly- I’m trying, thanks. I know what my dealbreaker is. Hope it doesn’t happen.
