marching,
Originally Posted by marching
I am starting to plan my move. I'm staying with my parents through the holidays. After that, I'm heading to a city on the other side of the country, where my work is based and my friends live.
Family & friends are vital. Enjoy the holiday with your parents, and GAL like crazy with your friends in the city.

Originally Posted by marching
I agree with my friends, therapist, and the DBers here that NOT going back to Country B is the best choice for my mental health. Still, I feel sad about it. I am accepting the feeling and letting it pass...
He knows how to contact you if he wants. In the meantime go enjoy your life and who knows when he reaches out next time you may not even want to hear from him.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21