On way to the meeting my Ring starts going crazy and it’s her outside burning stuff again. Normally I would have stayed and fought or come home and try to prevent the burning.
What do you mean "burning stuff"...literally setting things on fire? Can you be specific. Are we talking some wood in a backyard firepit or like abusively setting fire to items around the house that shouldn't be on fire? If it's the latter that's very concerning and you better talk to L, document...etc. ASAP
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
I asked S6 if he was ok and he said no.
If your W is off the deep end and not caring for your kids you're going to have to step up even that much more as dad. Yes it's more of a burden and maybe that's not fair but the kids should be the priority - it's not their fault.
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
W got home around 9:30, didn’t say a word and went in to bathroom for 15-20 minutes.
Goes out, is much happier on return, and spends an extended period in the bathroom = high probability of an affair. That equals a high degree of certainty of an affair.
Originally Posted by FwdMvmnt
She’s mentioned Emotional Abuse.
I don't know you and your situation well, but it is EXTREMELY common for the WS to claim emotional abuse. They have to blame you for they're guilt.
FwdMvmnt - I'll be honest. I know this is a save marriage site and I'm totally on board with that, but your W seems extra crazy and has a lot of deep seeded issues. If what you're saying is true you need to think long and hard about whether the M is best for you and the kids. Make sure to protect yourself and your kids. Are you in IC?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
