MikeP, have you thought what reconciliation looks like for you? I am completely on board with "You have to find another job." being a stipulation for her in order for you to accept that she is serious about reconciling. Be high value. Expect more. Don't settle.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018