Bttrfly, in an effort to not hijack FM's thread I'll just agree to disagree.
I don't view discussing FM's situation on his thread as a hijack of his thread. You and I will not agree on that or this boundary issue and we don't need to. FM needs to take all the input he gets, consider the various sources (because everyone should ALWAYS consider the source) and take action that he feels is most appropriate to him.
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