Sorry to post again. I am now receiving texts from my Mother in Law about not letting her daughter come in for Christmas. I also just received a text from my parents which I will post below. I have no clue how to handle or how much to say. I am going to reach out to my program support and sponsor as well.
“I don’t know what has gotten into your son, but please talk some sense into him. He has shut down all the credit cards and PayPal and I can no longer do Christmas shopping. He refuses to have an adult conversation. This is me hoping maybe you and Andy can talk some sense into him. It’s not right the way he is treating me. I simply want to finish my shopping. Last night he told me I could book a plane ticket for xxx bc we can’t stand to be around eachother without fighting and when I told him I was going to this morning, he shut everything down. I do not have access to cash so he is basically making it so I have NOTHING. I can’t even put gas in my car. I am going to start substitute teaching, but I don’t feel like I have time to start before Christmas. Nor would I get a paycheck. Please talk some sense into your son. This isn’t right.”
The part about her wanting to fly because the fighting is new. She has been saying she wants to fly so she can come home early because she doesn’t think she could be around her mother that long. Again not sure how much to tell her mother. I responded that she’s hearing one side of the story and that I did say we would purchase the tickets when we had a plan in place for the week.