Me again Just walked in from my GAL this morning. Al Anon meeting and Church. Why did you turn off the credit cards? I said we will still get your ticket but we need to plan what the trip looks like for all of us. I said when you want to plan this out we can sit down and talk. She continues and I said I’m not doing this right now with S6 in the room. She told me that shutting the cards down is illegal, both are just in my name, and that I’ll pay for it. She said my mom said she’d pay for it. I said we will pay for when we create the plan. This was funny to me since she ignores her mom constantly and pushes her mother away or blames her for the way she feels after talking to her. She likes to historically put her mother and I in the same bucket. Her mom is extremely codependent and has always been intertwined in our marriage, even though we moved across country. My guess is W will be reaching out to her more through this ordeal. Not sure if I need to communicate to her or not about the situation, since my oldest S22 is currently lining with them. I was making S6 a sandwich and she continued to attempt to talk and Then started calling me a weak little man. That her friend “Greg” from AA told her this is what you’d do, called me spiteful. Then she started bad mouthing me to S6. I took him in the other room and ignored the barrage coming from the other room. I told S6 that mommy was mad and that we both love him. He went back out there and she continued. Sorry for rant, will continue the path. Posting here helps me remember to journal the day as well. I still can’t believe this is the same woman. Thank you all again
