Thank you L!

I am on my way to an Al Anon meeting and she texts me to see what card to put a flight on to get her home for Christmas. I told her I wanted to discuss when I got home. She said she wanted to do it anyways, so I locked the credit cards. I’m not sure if right thing to do or not.
Here is text thread

W- I’m going to book a flight for Christmas
W- Which card would you like me to use?
H- Neither until discussed
H- We need a plan
H- We can talk later to figure it out
W- I’m going to book it now. There are only a few flights left
H- We can talk about it later
W- Did you disable these credit cards?
W- What is the PayPal password? I am booking this flight bc there is only one left
H- We can talk about it later
W- Fu$& That


Me:44 W:42
M:22 T: 22-23
S:22 D:19 D:16 S:6
Confirm EA/PA: 7/22
BD/IHS: 10/22