I was at my friends house when I started getting notifications of eBay bids/offers. I figured just Christmas shopping. Then A picture of Lingerie came up and said had active bid. We are not having sex currently and last weekend she told me she wanted to start having sex again, but not with me. She was in a program for sex addiction, which she is currently not working. I understand the risks of being married to a sex addict. When I got home she started to talk about my night. To which I said See you’ve been busy shopping tonight. I said I assume you are seeing someone now? She said what are you talking about. I Told her about the multiple notifications that came through on the bids for lingerie. he was shopping for our daughter and a bra for herself, not lingerie. I said there were bids on a teddy, which she said oh yeah i did bud on two. I want to look sexy and have things to wear under my dresses, Why point would I have to lie? I then said something along the lines of I know all I need to and walked out of the room. Normally I would dig in and create an argument. When I came back inside she started talking about something else unrelated, and then said something along the lines of I said “just because I want to look sexy doesn’t mean I am [censored] someone. I said I didn’t want to talk about it, and she got a little heated. Then more heated telling me I’ve treated her different the last two days and that I was a Dick, ever since she told me about the guy friend number she got. I said I’m only doing what’s best for me and I don’t want to talk about it right now. She then proceeded to call me a pu$*y and said I’ve always been one. Which I just didn’t respond. This is not how I envisioned the night and made some strides in not fuellimg an argument, but still mishandled it. Need to know best way to respond to names, because when I don’t say anything that seems weak. Sorry for the Novel but really want to get this right the next time. The last thing she asked about was church tomorrow, I just said I was going and she’s like, I’m not part of that now? I answered you can do what you want, but S6 and I are going. Please give any feedback.
