We explained to the older kids that we are doing an in-house separation, but at the time she was not dead set on divorce. So I’m not sure where they think we are with it. My oldest does know about my wife’s SA due to her telling him. Our youngest asks questions, and has seen us argue, but and asks questions. I always answer that we don’t know what’s going to happen in the future, but no matter what MOMMY And Daddy both love you so much and that will never change. My wife has told him that mommy will have a separate house at some point and that we would have two houses. I am with him almost each night, unless traveling for work. I’m trying to be as connected as possible. I do bedtime and baths, etc, while she is at meetings. We will both be there for Christmas morning, but just not at each others family parties as it stands currently.
