It’s out there now, and want to be able to communicate it properly to the kids.
It’s not carved in stone. You can walk it back. If you want. The three older kids are probably ok with it as is. The six year old; you might want to consider both being present.
I suppose it’s an extension of the in house separation, which they would see everyday. Unless you two can find a way to be in the same room together for a while.
Anyhow, age appropriate answers. What have you explained regarding IHS?
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