Hello AJK

Yes, your job is not to facilitate a relationship between child and W. Your job is not to destroy it.

As for the family Christmas gatherings. What is your reason for not participating?

Originally Posted by AJK29
Today I told her I wanted the bedroom back and that when we go home, I don’t want to be at her Family Christmas and that I did not want her at mine.

It is interesting that the bedroom and Christmas gatherings got smushed together. It has an appearance of retribution. Although it is a post from a phone, and it’s difficult to summarize events and details. Hence, me seeking clarification.

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Last edited by Michele Weiner-Davis; 12/10/22 05:26 PM.
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