I’ve detached and decided I’m only going to speak to her and be polite when she does to me but hasn’t happened yet.
Why only when she does?
You are giving and perpetuating the silent treatment to her as well.
Yes things will feel like roommates. You control you. Be a good roommate. Kind and cordial.
W not speaking a single word to you since Thursday does not preclude you from saying good morning, mentioning your plans with daughter, etc. And then going about your day and actives.
Detachment is not ignoring. It is that you aren’t uncontrollably dragged around by your emotions.
Better, not bitter. Kind and cordial. Focusing on you is leading and living by example. Her following, or not, is up to her.
Hang in there man.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
