Woahhhh….. yeah, it wouldn’t be anything serious with us. I’m willing to bet he wants to get married and have kids, but no, I don’t know the actual answers yet. He’s a good fun time, an extrovert like me. I also know he’s fresh out of a relationship. And D hasn’t swam since last June with him and she wouldn’t be for a few months if she wanted to do it again because she’s so focused on cheer . But i do have to be aware. I think she would be a little weirded out. But she would never know. She does know I keep running into him.

Pros: he owns his place and has a career

I know his mom 😂😂😂 she’s D’s other swim instructor 🤣

Seriously though, I don’t know how I feel about this. I AM attracted to him ( he’s 6’4 and this burly guy with tats. It’s hot. Hotter when he has his teacher clothes on ) I’ve also seen him in a swim suit, lol. And reality is, I know he mainly wants to hook up.

No need to make any decisions now. I’m hoping one day a man comes along fully single, out of a relationship for a long time, is stable, yet fun and wants to date even past the honeymoon phase.

So, while I wait to meet that unicorn, do I have some fun until then? I think I’m getting to old for “fun” though