Originally Posted by AJK29
I read it as tying if not in a position to work on the marriage. She just started talking to another man and told me she wants to start having sex again, but not with me. She also has changed the way she dresses and is in recovery for addictions, which she blames on the marriage. Did I read it wrong?

Wow that sounds very familiar to my situation, except for the addictions. But my wife told me the same thing, that she was interested in sex again but not with me.

Rewriting history is a normal part of a WW's journey. My wife tried to say she had never been happy in our marriage, something I knew was not true. Just understand that whatever she claims is her new reality. No sense in arguing with someone that's convinced of what they are claiming.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018