Thanks for your reply. I guess we will see how it plays out. I just found out she is starting g another relationship after a string of affairs a few months ago. We have been in the same house and I was your typical bend over backwards husband to try and fix it. We had boundaries set and she crossed, I’ve never held to them before and worrying I am backpedaling or pushing her right into his arms. I should mention that she stated she wants to leave the relationship and has no interest in reconciling it. I told her I would not pay for another house when she mentioned leaving, she does not work, so probably have a few months before she gets a job and has enough money to move out. I do love her, but this is not sustainable.
