Originally Posted by br4nd0n
I appreciate the feedback on how I should have communicated to her
For each interaction in the future, there will be two extremes. Finding the right point between the extremes is what matters. Most of us are programed to behave in a predictable way. We don't even know the extremes. Leaning new ways is part of the growth. That way in the future, we can make better choices in the way we interact.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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