yeah - I can't even stand being close friends with people pleasers. they aren't safe. you don't know what's real and what isn't. I get it's a trauma response, but d@mn, being on the other end of it leaves you wondering who the person really is, or if they even know themselves.

I'm really glad you recognized that about yourself.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver