Walkaway Wife Help

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So I don’t know what was actually discussed in that MC session without me obviously that she went alone.

I know she came back real quiet and didn’t talk to me after.

What I do know is that she “felt worse after going”.

When asked by her friend if it was helpful, she said “yes and no” but that she is “depressed”.

My guess is that session, especially with me finally declining to go, has made her feel worse about how she has treated me these past couple months. She has told me before that she thinks she is being selfish and my guess is that is still weighing on her.

Maybe the counselor challenged her on path and that didn't sit well. I remember in one of the three MC sessions we had then-W said she had a disagreement with her IC and a tough session. I didn't know details but thought "great...maybe IC is telling her she should work on the marriage, especially with two very young children". But that was speculation and mind reading and didn't really serve me. As we said above, none of that really matters. She is going to take the path she's going to take and you can't control it. Do your best to focus your efforts on yourself.