So, after a few years here, I finally found another book, besides DB that hit the nail on the head.. No More Mr Nice Guy, by Dr Glover. Finished the book, and I want to read it again. It was a simple fast and to the point book. I think it is very positive for someone to read. Can women read it, sure.. I think allot of women fall into some of it. It goes into great deal how your relationship with Mom n Dad , society, and world events have shaped men in the last century.