Ginger I’m truly sorry as I know it hurts - not in a broken-hearted way, just in a someone fun to do things with way. But I can’t help but believe you were being used - and you know what for. I’m clear I’m not looking for marriage or even a live-in GF (though I’d be fine committing to the right woman and only seeing her) but even in the more casual sitchs I look forward to and want to see her. He wants to see you but only when nothing else gets in the way or he has needs to fulfill. Yeah, it’s not a “you awake” text at midnight but the end result was the same. I thing he is torn but he’s not even admitting it to himself. He’s just trying to get out of this what he wants without compromising for anything you want. You’re better than that and you deserve better than that.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D