Marching - this is his divorce. Let him take the lead, however long that takes. Work on your own GAL in the meantime, but this is his gig - not yours.

I feel quite adamant about this.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver