A question - I know you are supposed to do things like connect back with friends and to make her be curious about my whereabouts. Do you tell her what you are doing/going? Or do you just say “hey I made some plans and will be out”.
Originally Posted by DnJ
As for how much detail to tell. It depends on the scenario. Just keep any pressure dialed way down. A general, "I’m heading out for a few hours", should suffice. Other times, "D and I are getting an Xmas tree. Want to come along?", would be more appropriate. It depends on the scenario, and that day. Be kind and cordial. Keep your side of the street in order.
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