Originally Posted by DW17
I said I’d think about it and let her know.
Good but...... Thank you I already have plans is way better.
Originally Posted by DW17
I don’t plan on going and I intend to go out with friends instead. It’s hard to say no to things like this, but I feel it’s the right decision.
Why is it hard to say "no"?
Originally Posted by DW17
I am trying to avoid as much joint activities so W feels like she is at least missing something from me.
Exactly!
Originally Posted by DW17
It’s a 180 for me as I’m usually the puppy dog following whatever she comes up with.
Unfortunately this most likely landed you here.
Originally Posted by DW17
I’ve been spending a ton of time with them doing other things though, so I’ll see how this goes as well.
Enjoy your kids.