Originally Posted by Doug54
I wonder about the seeming contrast between "a MLC has to run its course- there's nothing you can do to alter it" vs the tough-love approach advocated by Sandi and a few others.
If you were going to institute a tough love approach what would it look like?
Originally Posted by Doug54
I definitely don't have the stomach for a years' long dead-ish marriage.
Doug this is absolutely a multiple year process.
Originally Posted by Doug54
That's another reason I don't try to play defense when W initiates nookie.
What are the other reasons?
Originally Posted by Doug54
Any thoughts on my situation are welcome as always.
Sorry I was late on my response I was on vacation.