I feel like I'm just coming off upset/annoyed/short with her.
Was upset/annoyed/short with her typically how you behaved when you didn't get your way with her?
Originally Posted by br4nd0n
Which I am...I'm heartbroken and I don't want to loose my wife...so It's tough.
Do you know when you are 100% most likely to reconcile effectively?
When you no longer care if you do or not.
That's the honest and sad truth. Reconciliation requires a level playing field, an even starting line. BOTH of you need to be willing to walk and to believe the other one will leave. That makes you something worth having.
