A question - I know you are supposed to do things like connect back with friends and to make her be curious about my whereabouts. Do you tell her what you are doing/going? Or do you just say “hey I made some plans and will be out”.
Short answer is YES.
Things like this are vague enough: H:"I will be home late Friday."
If she questions you on when you will be home "Not sure" If she ask who with H:"Some friends" if she asks again H:"You don't know them"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
