No offense, and wishing you all the best, but not sure this is true. You have some major issues to work out.[/quote]
I just meant for the moment things were ok, not overall. LOL not even close.
Originally Posted by bttrfly
did you mention to the therapist that gf made the suggestion that you date someone else? i'd be interested in the therapist's take on that.
I agree with bl - you've got a lot to sort through. i get wanting a break maybe or wanting to celebrate the 10% but don't sweep things under the rug.
I will mention it to the therapist. I am curious myself to see what she will say.
Overall pretty good weekend. Communication is getting better, just very slowly.
Completely different question. Ever once in a while sadness creeps in about my d. I just miss her so much. I can't help but feel how much time I am missing with her. I literally pray for the day I can talk to her and just give her a hug. I guess my question is, is it normal that every once and a while the sadness creeps in. No one knows, nor would I show that emotion to anyone. I just wonder sometimes what she is doing or who her friends are. It just hurts sometimes so bad.
Sometimes when that creeps in I just try and focus on the ones I love and who love me. I just love seeing the baby and my s together. They absolutely love each other. It is such a wonderful feeling. I am so happy my son was not brainwashed by my ex into not having a relationship with his brother.
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20