did you mention to the therapist that gf made the suggestion that you date someone else? i'd be interested in the therapist's take on that.

I agree with bl - you've got a lot to sort through. i get wanting a break maybe or wanting to celebrate the 10% but don't sweep things under the rug.

Last edited by DnJ; 12/05/22 01:53 PM. Reason: Corrected typos.
M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver