I didn’t do it yet. It was just a nice weekend with my kid , I didn’t want to be sad or bring it down. We haven’t really spoken. Exchanged some texts during the hockey game yesterday. We watch the games together, Nothing today, I knew he had an engagement and I was just busy with the kid and having fun. We did our annual Christmas fudge making / gingerbread house building bedroom decorating day with D’s BFF. The two of them are Christmas obsessed and I’ve been hosting this for years. I love them. I posted a pic on IG and he instantly “liked” it, but otherwise, I haven’t heard from him today and I just don’t even have that desire to reach out . I feel defeated in that area. I’m pretty sure i have lost interest too. He’s going to the game on Tuesday….. D BEGGED me to go this Tuesday. I told her only if I could get free tickets through my first responder website. And well, I’ll be darned, they had a bunch that went available today. We got center ice tickets for a total of $15 transfer fee. Hockey guy has club seats, will likely not run into him. He doesn’t even know I’m going.
I have been looking up the news story of my coworker. It’s national news. He was shot in his car on campus. My heart is just breaking for her and her husband. He just transferred to this college this year from a different one in hopes of playing football.
We can donate PTO at work and I am going to see if I can get up a collection so she can be out without pay as long as possible. I wish there was more I could do.
