I keep repeating the mantra if they wanted to they would.
When my first post-divorce Love Avoidant boyfriend was not stepping up to the plate, I kept an index card with a mantra tucked into the visor of my car: “He’s just not that into you”. It was surprisingly helpful!
CMM taught me what it was like to be with a man who was really into me, wanted to be with me, and wanted to be in a relationship with me. You’re right to want that.
